52 Acts of Kindness for Families with Young Children

52 Acts of Kindness for Families with Young Children

Every person can use their head, heart, and hands to make the world a better place.  I truly believe that we all have the power to make a change, even if it is small… you really never know what that change may mean to someone else.

But life is busy, and a bit crazy with young children.  And sometimes small acts of kindness – even though they are simple – take a bit of preparation or at least thought ahead of time.  So they may get left until “later”…

That is why I have created this list of 52 acts of kindness for families, which I plan to incorporate into my family’s *real* plans throughout the coming months.  Some will be repeated numerous times, others may be adapted to a certain circumstance, but the list just gives us a ready set of ways we can practice kindness to others.  The idea is not to take the fun out of spontaneous acts of kindness (we can still do those as much as we wish!), but just to make sure we keep kindness on our radar.  I think this will also help us recognize the opportunities to be kind even more.

I’m planning to use my ebook 52 Acts of Kindness: A Family Scrapbook of Kindness in Every Season to record some of our favorite memories.  If you would like to check it out, visit this page.

There are soooo many lovely ideas for how we can show kindness to others, but this list has been especially compiled with the “young family” in mind.  Most of the ideas are very simple and can be completed in a short period of time, or they will easily capture the interest of toddlers and preschoolers with some food or hands-on activity involved.

Here is my list of 52 acts of kindness for families with young children:

1. Bring hot cocoa to a neighbor

2. Give away old toys to younger children

3. Leave a treat for the mail carrier in your mailbox

4. Give some flowers to someone feeling unwell

5. Make happy notes on the sidewalk with chalk

6. Take paints and paper to share at the local playground

52 Acts of Kindness - #7 Feed some birds or ducks - or animals at your local zoo

7. Feed some birds or ducks – or animals at your local zoo

8. Organize an afternoon of games for your neighborhood

9. Give popsicles to outdoor workers (those in construction or gardening, perhaps)

10. Take icewater and cups to the playground to share with others

11. Hold a Lemonade Stand to donate to a cause you support

12. Hold a “dog wash” to raise money for an animal shelter or zoo

13. Wash cars to raise money for a cause you support

14. Rake leaves (or do gardening) for a neighbor

15. Take baked goods to a teacher

52 Acts of Kindness - #16 Take snacks to staff at the local Hospital

16. Take snacks to staff at the local Hospital

17. Babysit so that a couple can have a date

18. Donate DVDs to the local Hospital

19. Donate toys to the fire brigade for children in emergencies

20. Have a family round of shoulder massages

21. Pass out stickers to children waiting at the doctor’s office

22. Read inspiring stories to a group of children

52 Acts of Kindness - #23 Donate books to a doctor’s or dentist’s office

23. Donate books to a doctor’s or dentist’s office

24. Meet someone new at the shops or in a park

25. Take a treat to a bus driver

26. Educate yourself and your neighbors about recycling

27. Invite another family over for dinner

28. Cut coupons and put them in a neighbor’s mailbox

29. Take a Thank You card to the local librarians

30. Drop off “good morning” notes for early risers in a hotel

31. Draw a picture of your community for the Police Station

32. Open the door for people entering a shop or restaurant

52 Acts of Kindness - #33 Bring a meal to a family in need

33. Bring a meal to a family in need (recent birth, sickness, or loss)

34. Write a poem for someone you love

35. Make “Be Happy” notes and put them in mailboxes

36. Vacuum the house of a family who just had a baby

37. Learn a joke to tell to a check-out person

38. Tape change to a parking meter or vending machine

39. Make a list of things you love about someone and send it to them

40. Leave a happy note in a library book

41. Create a movie theater afternoon for your neighborhood

42. Send a postcard to a distant cousin or friend who moved away

52 Acts of Kindness - # 43 Pick up trash around the neighborhood or at a park

43. Pick up trash around the neighborhood or at a park

44. Sing for the elderly

45. Make a phone call to a friend or family member far away

46. Go on an errand and smile at everyone you see

47. Blow bubbles (and take extra) to the playground

48. Volunteer in a local animal shelter

49. Take cans of food to the local Food Bank

52 Acts of Kindness - #50 Donate old clothes a local organization

50. Donate old clothes a local organization

51. Introduce someone who just moved to your town to new friends

52. Let someone go ahead of you in line at the shops

Do you have ideas to add?  What acts of kindness has your family enjoyed?

52 Acts of Kindness ebook


To find out more about my ebook which is a template for planning acts of kindness throughout the year, as well as a place to record some of your favorite memories, visit this page.

I am looking forward to using the book to plan out our acts of kindness a bit more (to make sure we do not get stuck on the same ones over and over!) and using the book to reflect on what we have enjoyed as well as what we have learned.

I think it will be so fun for the boys to look back as older children and be inspired by what they did.  Truly all hands – even small ones – can make a difference.  Read this post if you have any doubt.

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  1. says

    My five year old daughter and I took candy canes to the local hospital on Thanksgiving and handed them out to staff and visitors. We thanked the staff for working on the holiday. Oh, and we wore Santa hats while doing it :)

  2. Raquel says

    I love this list! I have an only child who is now 5 years old. As much as we try, he is a bit spoiled and beginning to show signs of entitlement. So this Thanksgiving we worked together to gather toys he no longer played with to donate. It was a bit of a struggle and I’m not entirely sure he got the concept since you don’t actually get to see an end result besides dropping them in a big box. More of these types of projects are needed in our house. I’m so happy I came across this in Pinterest. We will use this list year round. Thank you!!

  3. says

    You know how much I love this book. We are finally starting our acts of kindness today. We’ve already added a new one to the list as well. We are making chocolate brownies for the house down the road. We want them to know how happy their Christmas decorations make us, every time we drive past.

  4. Carlye Luecke says

    I have started making all types of Rak and Pay it forward cards. We have a huge family and have decided to get everyone together on June 13 EVERY year to this. The reason we chose this date is because my daughter delivered my grandson stillborn on this date. SOOOOOO instead of the dreadful yearly memorial we have decided to do this in his honor. Some ideas I have come up with that are not on this list are buying a bunching of carnations from the local plant and sod stand. They are super cheap there. We are going to attach one of the cards we have been making to each one and put them on peoples windshields in a grocery store parking lot. We have a few singers in the fam so we are going to go and sing to the elderly. Writing letters to the heroes serving our country, put money on someone’s layaway bill, pass out lottery tickets, make get well cards for sick one’s in the hospital. Those are just a few different ones I have come up with that are not on your list. I also want to point out that each one of us are putting in $10 each to go towards this. It’s not a lot of money but considering the size of our family we will be able to help many people. I have already started just by simply making it a point to say have a great day or weekend to EVERY person I connect with daily. It not only makes them smile but makes me feel great too! Happy Giving everyone!!


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